The Marriage Bed
How many times have I heard well-meaning Christians counsel that sex is most beautiful in the context of marriage? That God created sex to be a loving act between a husband and a wife and that it is the purest form of pleasure? This is ideally true...and because it's true, then why aren't Christians counseling on HOW to achieve this beautiful union? A couple of years ago I was in a mommy Bible study and the leaders wanted feedback on what topics would be helpful to study. When I mentioned discussing "sex after children" you could hear a pin drop....then....well, how about "creative play ideas?" {Sigh} Why don't we want to go there? What's the mystery? Statements made regarding marital sex being God's design for a husband and a wife are true, but seem short-sided. They leave me feeling that marital sex should be magical transporter to bliss and perfection. And maybe that is what it was for Adam and Eve before the fall. But...